Saturday, December 29, 2007

Merry Christmas From Wolfhill



Wow, this has been a very very busy Christmas Season around here!! In addition to all the wonderful family traditions we have also been so excited and busy getting ready for our trip to China to bring home are sweet daughter Hope. She is waiting for us in Anhui Province, Peoples Republic of China at the Huainan Social Welfare Childrens Institute. We can hardly wait to officially make her part of our family.


Now for a quick rundown of the Holiday activities. On the Sunday before Christmas we all went to Harvest Time, it was a very beautiful Christmas service. We attended the Choir's Christmas program a couple of weeks ago and it was exceptional. We had a good sized Orchestra and Choir. Our new Pastor, Jonathan and his wife Janet were able to be here with us for Christmas and both participated in the service. Janet has a beautiful voice and sang a solo part on Oh Holy Night...I got chills...really beautiful. We are so thankful for our church.


We also attended Sunnie's Christmas Program at school. Now that will really get you into the Christmas Spirit!! Caleb plays JV Basketball as well as filling in on the varsity team from time to time, Bradley and Ben are playing Junior High Basketball so we seem to spend a lot of time in the gym! Tyler is still in elementary school and their games are later in the year.


My Step-Dad was able to spend Christmas with us this year and that was so nice. His power went off during the ice storm in Oklahoma and it was quite a while before power was restored and he just decided to stay for Christmas...that would have really pleased my Mom.


We traditionally have our Christmas together on Christmas Eve...I love Christmas Eve. We are all looking forward to next Christmas when Hope Marie will be with us. It was a little sad knowing she had to spend another Christmas in the orphanage but we were so thankful that we at least had her picture this year. She will be overwhelmed I am sure. Sunnie Kay and Hope received a Chinese Baby Doll for Christmas that is really really cute!! I'll post a picture.


I am so thankful for Jesus. The reason we celebrate this wonderful season. On Christmas Eve when we all sit quietly together and Ronnie reads the story of His birth from the Bible I look around at our precious family and just thank Him for His blessings to us. This year we all thank Him for Hope...


Merry Christmas


Becky

Friday, December 14, 2007

Winter Night

As you have surely heard by now, we have finally received our adoption referral. It’s a girl! She is just what we asked for in a process that started nearly three years ago. She was three years old on December 12 and she is beautiful. I’m sure that I am a little prejudiced, but she really is the cutest little girl I’ve ever seen since my other three daughters were that age.

We had hoped to use part of her Chinese name, and had waited until we learned it to finalize the decision. We had already decided on the first name of “Hope” about a month ago, and waited for the referral to see what she was named in China. Well, it looks like that may be difficult. Her Chinese name is Huai Dong Tan. We have decided on calling her Hope Marie, and are still thinking about the Chinese part.

It is the meaning of her Chinese name that brings a tear to my eye. “Huai” is the name of the orphanage that she is in, and the words “Dong Tan” mean “winter night”. Apparently, she was found on Dec. 14, 2007 and was judged to be two days old, so we can assume the she was discovered on a winter night. It breaks my heart to think about what her China mother felt like she had to do. I don’t judge her because I don’t know what it is like to live in a country that has been haunted by famine, war, and poverty. In truth we have decided to keep that unknown Chinese mother in our prayers in the future.

There is probably no season and time that can seem so bleak as a winter night. Those of us blessed to have a home, and family and loved ones waiting for us around a warm hearth should be very thankful. Can we even imagine the anguish of a mother who felt that her life and future were so bleak that she would give up a precious daughter? I believe however, that the Chinese mother had some degree, however slight, of hope. Hope that her daughter would be cared for, and hope that some loving family would take her child into a good home. We consider it an honor and a privilege to be part of the answer to that mother’s hopes and perhaps prayers for her child.

As we approach the celebration of Christmas this year the whole world seems to be in a dark, bleak, winter night of war, turmoil, suffering, fear, and anxiety. The one whose birth we celebrate came to bring light and hope to the world, yet multitudes choose darkness, and multitudes still wait to be told of the Gospel, the “good news” of Jesus Christ. We pray that in this holiday season all who read this would renew their hope in the promises of Christ, and especially that any who have not yet responded to Christ’s Gospel would do so.

Also, please pray for us to be able to complete our journey, and bring home our little girl whose name will be changed from “ Winter Night” to “Hope Marie”.

Ronnie

Monday, December 10, 2007

Population On Wolfill To Increase By One Beauty!!!

I am sure most of you already know about our daughter but we wanted to post her beautiful little face here too!!!! We are so blessed. We should be going to bring her home in 5 to 7 weeks depending on how fast things like travel approval from China and Visas and American Consulate appointments get here. You know we waited 2 years but it was well worth it. When we first saw her face we forgot all about the wait.

Becky

Wednesday, December 05, 2007

Adoption Update!!!!!!!!

It's getting close. The referrals from the China Center of Adoption Affairs in Beijing have arrived in the USA. This months referrals are especially exciting since.......WE WILL GET OURS THIS TIME!!!!!!!!

On Friday our Agency CCAI will call with the wonderful news. We will be waiting by the phone as calm as a cucumber. ( now who believes that??? ) When the call comes they will tell us her Chinese name, what Province in China she is in, a little about her health like weight and such, oh yeah and the most important thing HOW OLD SHE IS!!! Her age is a real mystery. According to the rules in China they try to match older parents with older children ages 3 to 6 years, but you never know sometimes they will not have an older child and will match you with one much younger. One thing is for sure....we do not care!!! She will be our daughter if she is 6 months old or 6 years old and we will love her with all of our hearts...we already do. While we are on the phone with them they will scan her picture to an email and in a few minutes we will see her precious face for the first time.

By the way for those of you who do not know we have chosen half of her American name!! Click on this link *Our Little Secret* and see!!! And then this link to read the other posts on China Hope

We are so thankful to the Lord who led us to this wonderful place in our lives, who we trust to go with us through every step of our journey to our little girl and give us the grace and wisdom to raise another daughter for Him.

We are also so thankful for our daughters Misty, Carmen, and Bethany who totally support their crazy parents..... crazy parents who love them more than they will ever know.....

Ronnie and Becky

Monday, December 03, 2007

Happy Birthday TYLER!!

We love you Tyler. Happy Birthday!!

Caleb, Bradley and Sunnie where in the world did you leave your smiles??

Aunt Bethany, Tyler, and the newest part time Wolfhill resident Buddy "Romo". Buddy is showing off one of Tyler's favorite Birthday gifts a John Deere toboggan.

Tyler and Buddy worn out after such a wild and crazy party!!



Happy Birthday Tyler! Today is Tyler's birthday. He is 11 years old and just a "tad" taller than most guys his age. We love you Ty and are soooooooo proud of you. We had the usual type of Wolfhill birthday party, hamburgers, hotdogs and lots of cake and pie. Early in the afternoon Caleb suggested to Ronnie that Tyler needed some chocolate pecan pie for his birthday. (Ty does not like chocolate pecan pie but Caleb loves it ). Needless to say...Ronnie cooked some pies!! Misty made Tylers favorite cake so he was a happy and just ignored the pie business.


Happy Birthday Tyler

We love you



Ronnie and Becky

Saturday, December 01, 2007

My New Camera & Adoption Update

Hopefully we will have more pictures and video to post soon. Ronnie bought me a new camera last week and I love it. I am still learning to use it. It is a Cannon A570. Several months ago I dropped my other camera and the screen broke which meant that I could not change any settings on it. Even though I could still take pictures for a while it eventually stopped working all together. I'm going to be very careful with this new camera and try to make it last longer than a year!!

I think we may need a good camera very soon....since we will be traveling to China in JANUARY to adopt our long awaited little girl. Late next week we should be getting a call from our Adoption Agency CCAI. We will know about 24 hours ahead that they will be calling with our referral information, they take the time to translate and verify all information received from the China Center Of Adoption Affairs before notifying families. I appreciate that extra step that they take, even though we have to wait an additional day. Our agency Chinese Children Adoption International is wonderful. The wait has been hard and they have been compassionate and have kept us informed throughout the last 2 years. When we first began the adoption process the wait time from getting your paperwork logged in with China until your match with your child was made was about 6 months and about the time we got logged in the wait started to increase. Our date is December 9, 2005 and we will have waited almost 2 full years from that date to be matched with our little girl. We are so excited and ready to see her precious face and to learn her history. We are especially curious about how old she will be. We are finishing her room this weekend and will post pictures ( taken with my new camera!! ) soon!

Becky

Tuesday, November 27, 2007

To Tell the Truth

It's amazing how children are so honest and forthright before they mature enough to learn how to tell white lies to keep from offending or hurting someone's feelings. Every one of my grandkids has at one time or another, looked at me and said,"Hey, did you know you have a crooked tooth?" On that basis, I would rather ask one of the grandkids if I have bad breath than an adult. The adult will lie, or evade. The child will, if they are young enough, tell it like it is. I made the mistake of asking Sunnie that one day. I bent over and puffed in her face. She rolled her eyes, and made choking, gagging noises and acted like she was fainting. A simple yes would have sufficed.

Recently, I mentioned to Becky that I wondered if our little Hope would accept me better if my hair was darker. Everyone in China has black hair and I wasn't sure how she would take to a gray haired Baba. We decided that I would try some of that stuff that you comb into your hair and it restores the color gradually. When I read the directions, I began to have misgivings. The instructions said to comb the liquid into clean, dry hair and to not wash your hair again for a week. I can't stand to go more than a day without shampooing, so I decided to go ahead and try it, and still shampoo daily.

A couple of days after I started using it, I was down on my knees working on the lawnmower, when Sunnie walked up beside me. "What stinks", she asked? " I already had complained to Becky that I didn't like the smell of the stuff, and could almost swear that it seemed to attract flies. "Is it my hair", I asked Sunnie. She bent closer and sniffed, "Yuck!" she replied, "that's it". A while later Sunnie, Tyler and I were walking out to the barn to feed. "Something stinks",Tyler announced. This while were walking through a barnyard, but I bent over and said, "smell my hair, is that what it is"? Tyler sniffed and nodded his head matter of factly.

Now I lodged a more fervent complaint to Becky. "This stuff stinks, it draws flies, and it only makes my hair darker until I wash it out. It occurs to me that it works along the same lines that wet cow patties would work. Wet cow manure would accomplish the same thing, and would be much cheaper." The other day I saw the latest video of Osama Bin Laden. I couldn't help noticing that his beard looked much darker than in previous videos. I wonder if he is using something like I am, or is he using the cheap stuff?

Oh, yeah, I almost forgot. A week or so after I quit the stuff we were going somewhere in the car with Sunnie in the back seat."Hey, Ronnie, are still using that stuff in your hair", she asked? "No, not in several days", I replied. "Why do you ask"? " I just thought I would tell you that it's fading", she said.

"Thanks for noticing, Sunnie".

"You're welcome".

Ronnie

Thursday, November 22, 2007

Happy Thanksgiving






















Once again we celebrate another Thanksgiving Day. We are thankful for the love of family, to live free in the USA, Texas no less, for our health, for jobs to work and the ability to work. We are thankful for our military, many who are still in combat zones. We are thankful that our cousin Zack has ended his deployment in Iraq and is back in the states for a while. A special thanksgiving wish to Gary and his family in Japan. Above all, we are thankful for the hope that we have in Jesus Christ.

Ronnie

Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos into order, confusion into clarity.... It turns problems into gifts, failures into success, the unexpected into perfect timing, and mistakes into important events. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today and creates a vision for tomorrow.
Melodie Beattie

Looks like my banana pudding was a HIT!!!

Happy Thanksgiving...next year the crowd around here will be increased by one precious little girl....

Becky










Sunday, November 18, 2007

Thankful to be Here

In the early part of the twentieth century, Luther became a Christian. He was a poor man that had made a living sharecropping, barbering, and selling home brewed liqour. He had a wife, five sons, and two daughters. After his conversion, he gave up the making of the home brew. His conversion was dramatic, joyous, and wholehearted. From that point on, his greatest desire was to please the Lord Jesus. He found new joy in living, even in grueling hard work and privation. He loved his family with a newfound and selfless fervency.

In about 1937, his fourth son, about twelve years old, became sick with a painful stomach ache. Luther laid hands on the boy and prayed for him according to the scriptures and the custom of his church. When the boy didn't improve within a few hours, Luther sent word and asked for the Pastor to come and pray for the boy which he did. The boy still complained of the pain, but the Pastor encouraged Luther to stand fast in faith. Several hours later, the pain suddenly subsided, the boy felt better, and Luther and the family thanked the Lord for His healing power as they had done dozens of times before.

The next day, the boy developed a fever and began to have some pain in the stomach again. Luther knew that his faith was usually tested, and he stood on the scriptures, and comforted his son. Some of Luther's family suggested that they should take the boy to the doctor, but Luther felt that would be acting in unbelief. Luther had some from the church who admonished him that Christians should never need a doctor if their faith was sufficient.

By the next day, Luther's agony at seeing his son still suffering, and the persuasion of his brother-in-law and others in the family caused him to seek a ride twenty miles into town to the doctor. When the doctor checked out the boy, he had very bad news. The child had suffered from appendicitis, and the appendix had ruptured. When the appendix burst, that was what brought about the temporary relief of pain. Now, infection had set in, and was well advanced.

Luther was stunned. The old doctor was very frank, if Luther had brought the boy in on the first day, if would have been a simple matter to remove the appendix with a good prognosis. Now, the situation was grave. In the next few days, the boy steadily worsened. Luther spent hours praying in an old buggy shed behind the hospital, but the child's condition deteriorated. The doctor told Luther that he had done all that he could do. When he tried to stitch up the opening, the flesh was gangrenous and rotten. It was so bad that bowel movements came out of the gaping hole in the boy's lower side.

Luther had to prepare himself and his family for the boy's death. Once again Luther retreated to the buggy barn and spent an agonizing night in prayer. We don't know exactly how he prayed, but he knew that without a miracle, his son would probably be dead before the next day was over. He may have prayed for forgiveness for not acting in time to save his boy's life. He probably wrestled with thoughts that his faith must have been defective, or that his son was being punished for the failures of his father.

That morning, a little after sunrise Luther walked over to the hospital, drained and exhausted. The doctor met him in the hall, and said that he didn't understand it, but they had a little good news. The boy had experienced a normal bowel movement, something was changing for the better. In the days ahead the progress increased, healthy skin began to appear and the gangrene lessened. The fever subsided and the child gained some strength.

There was a young nurse who took extra time to carry the boy around the hospital to visit others or to get fresh air. He was still too weak to walk for many days. In time, the boy was able to be sent home. His younger brother and sister had to teach him to walk again, but he kept improving and getting stronger. I have been told that the doctor that treated the boy acknowledged that a miracle of some sort had occured, although he still resented that the boy wasn't brought in early enough to not need a miracle.

I am really thankful for the miraculous healing of the young boy. I can forgive Luther for waiting so long. I am sure that his heart was in the right place and that he did what he thought was best for his boy at the time. I know that he truly loved his son. I am sure of this because Luther was my grandfather, and his fourth son was my dad. I don't suppose that I would be here if God had not answered Luther's prayer and healed his son.

The young boy grew up to be one of the strongest men for his size that I have ever known. He had more energy and love of life than anyone I ever knew. Sometimes when I was tending to Dad in the nursing home before he died I would see the scar, as big as my fist in his lower right side. It always reminded me of how precarious the path is to our very existance.

I never did get to meet the old doctor who treated my dad, he had died before I was old enough to hear the story. I did have the pleasure of knowing the nurse that carried my dad around the hospital. She worked in the local hospital until retirement, and we saw her often around town, until her death about ten or fifteen years ago. She told me about carrying dad through the hospital, and I could tell that she had special fondess for him.

As Thanksgiving approaches I am taking inventory of the many things that I am thankful for. I suppose the first thing to be thankful for is just to be here, especially when I realize that it probably took a few miracles to make it possible. I'm also thankful for doctors and nurses, pastors and church members, even though none of them have perfect judgement at all times, and above all I am thankful for a loving Creator and Redeemer that loves us unconditionally, and can bring a miracle when we have to have one.

Ronnie

Friday, November 16, 2007

Hopes, Dreams, and Prayers

A family in China adopting a special needs toddler experienced a tragedy this last week. After the adoption had been completed and the family was in Guangzhou for the child’s visa, the father unexpectedly died. The mom is desperate to finish the adoption process and bring their new daughter home to America. At last report, after the intervention of congressmen and senators, they have obtained a visa for the child, and are headed for home. Our hearts go out to the mom, and all of the family. We have been praying for them, that this sorrowful loss would not mean the end of the new beginning hoped for by the adoptive dad for his new daughter.

From a dad’s perspective, I can testify that a father’s hopes and dreams for his children do not end when he dies. On the contrary, I believe that they continue on into the future, through space and time, and into eternity, like the light from a star that may have burned out long ago. When Becky and I were approved for adoption, the very first order of business for me was to take out more life insurance. There was an inner urging within me that I had another child on the way, and that I might not live to see her into adulthood.

When I am sitting on a church pew beside my grandkids, or feeding the catfish with them down at the pool, or enjoying a vacation outing with my daughters and their families, or when I have found a person in need that I can bless in some way, I know that I am living out the hopes and dreams that my Dad had for me. I feel his influence in everything that I do.

We pray for comfort and healing for this mom and loved ones. We pray for the daughter, that she will grow up knowing that a special dad invested all of his being to make her his daughter, and that he had hopes and dreams of a wonderful life for her. We pray that those hopes and dreams will be fulfilled for her in a joyful, abundant life.

Ronnie

Saturday, November 03, 2007

To China In January....

ADOPTION UPDATE:

We missed the cut off on the matches from the China Center Of Adoption Affairs by one day. Although it will not be actually official until the matches arrive on Monday or until the CCAA updates their website with the cut off date we are sure that we did not get matched this month. We were really hoping for a November match so that we could use some of our 2007 vacation time in making the trip and having more time at home with the little girl after getting back before having to go back to work.

Now to the positive side of this little bump in the road. We know that we will be included in the next batch because they will be starting with December 9, 2005 and that is our "Log In Date"
YEAH!!! No longer will we have to wonder if we are included in the next group of families that will be waiting on "THE CALL" from their agency. Probably sometime within the first 10 days in December we will be called by our agency and they will tell us the age of the little girl that the CCAA matched us with, what her Chinese name is, a little about her history, and then while we are on the phone with them they will send us an email with her picture attached. When we open up that email it will be our first glimpse of the little girl, that is destined to become our daughter. Wow!! Two years and seven months after being approved to adopt by Chinese Children Adoption International in Colorado we will see her precious face. It has been a very long wait and one thing that has remained constant and sure during this time is that we are so committed to loving, and raising another daughter. What a blessing!! Praise God, He is so faithful to us and to our family.

Our trip to China will be sometime in January, most likely in mid-month. It is awesome to finally have some sort of timeline. Thank you for all your prayers for us and for our little girl. We do hope that you will continue to pray for her and for us over the next couple of months. Our prayer for her is that she will be warm, fed, and lovingly held by someone who loves Jesus while she waits for us to bring her home.

As always continue to check our adoption site CHINA HOPE for more updates and soon PICTURES.

Becky

Sunday, October 28, 2007

They Have Her!!!!!!

Ben, Carla, Marley, and Luke welcomed Lillian Cen Mei Sims into their family today. (Even though Luke is waiting here at home he still became a big brother today). Please go check out the sweet post that Ben sent. Just click on the title of this post and you will go straight there.

No pictures yet there was a problem with the attachments. Check back tomorrow.

Becky

Saturday, October 27, 2007

TODAY Mei Joins Her Forever Family

My cousin Ben, Carla and daughter Marley are in China and since right now in China it is Sunday, October 28th about 1:00 PM they will later this evening be united with Lillian Mei and she will forever be their precious daughter. They left DFW on Thursday morning and arrived in Hong Kong about 23 hours later. Today they are going into China to the province where Mei was abandoned and has lived in an orphanage for the last 11 months. She will be home with them before her first birthday which will be November 18 th.

What a joy. Please pray for them and for her as this transition can sometimes be a little difficult, and remember Luke who is at home waiting for them to return with his new little sister. As of today Luke will be a big brother.

It has been a long wait. The first time we talked with Ben and Carla about the little girls in China it was Christmas almost 3 years ago. They had already been thinking and Carla being a court reporter had worked on a case with a family who had adopted a little girl from China...so the Lord was getting them ready. It is amazing how many Christian families are choosing to make little abandoned Chinese girls and boys a part of their families.

Ben and Carla are a very special couple with the anointing of the Lord on their lives to love, cherish and make this little girl their very own.

Blessings and safe travels, we love you all.

Becky

Saturday, October 20, 2007

Scrapbook Pages

These scrapbook elements are from Bette Duganitz "Gingham Girls"designs on Digitals website.
I will be using these elements to give China Hope a new and updated look as soon as I find the time!!!!!!!

In case you are wondering....I noticed my error on the date and changed it to the correct year. Just par for the course showing off my handiwork and it has the incorrect date!!


I have been playing around with some digital scrapbook designs and thought I would never learn. Last Christmas Ronnie bought me Adobe Photoshop to use for editing pictures and I have really struggled learning how to use it. I really have not taken the time I need in order to properly train myself...I just jumped in and started trying to use the program. Anyway I am finally getting to a point where I can use it and wanted to post one of my first pages I created.


The photo's are from Bethany's wedding. Sunnie was her flower girl. I think it is pretty sweet.



Monday, September 24, 2007

The Wolfhill Family Vacation

Just after arriving at Roaring River State Park and looking a little tired.
Roaring River and Our Grandchildren way up there!

Ronnie and Becky and the kids at Devils Kitchen rock formation.


Lunch and one of the only 2 pictures with Wade in it. He spent a lot of time trout fishing.


Well, it’s hard to believe that the summer of 2007 is over. At this time last year we believed that we would have a certain new member of the family home from China by now. In August of 2006 Becky and I went to Missouri for a short trip with Wade and Misty, Carmen and John, and all five grandkids. We had so much fun that we reserved two cabins for August of 2007. When it came time to confirm the reservations and pay in February, we decided to cancel because we thought it was too close to when we might get our referral. Maybe next year we can take everyone including that “Little China Girl”.

Let me tell you about last year’s trip. Like a lot of other vacations I’ve been on, the planning was almost as much fun as the “doing”. It is the “going” part of the vacation that usually wears me out, and this trip was no exception. As usual we had a foolproof plan to leave at 06:30. Finally at about 09:00 we were on the road. In our Crew Cab pickup was me, John and Carmen, Bradley, and Caleb. In their Durango were Wade and Misty, Ben, Tyler, Sunnie, and Becky. I led the way and we took a short cut just across the river that worked well, as the road which a few years ago was graveled was now asphalt. I felt good, we were an hour and a half behind schedule, but it looked like smooth sailing ahead.

The first stop occurred a little closer to home than I had hoped. It was actually the first convenience store that we came to in Oklahoma. A cell phone call from the Durango advised of the need for a bathroom stop. That’s good, I thought, we will get everybody relieved then get back on the road for a long haul. We parked and sat in the truck for a few minutes, while the Durango riders got out and wandered around the store. It was an old combination general store/gas station/grocery store. Since it seemed to be taking a while for people to start getting back into the Durango, I went in the old store and looked at dusty hats and saddles with Tyler. I wondered what was taking everyone so long. I went outside and around the corner to the bathroom. There was half of my family standing in line. There was only one bathroom and it was a one-holer.

Finally, everyone was through with the bathroom, and we started loading up. I was amazed that it takes ten minutes to load eleven people into two vehicles. Another ominous sign was that several of the kids and a couple of the grownups had opened up new cans of Dr Pepper. I realized that miles per gallon of gas was probably the least of my worries. What was important was how many miles could we get per ounce of Dr Pepper. I started imagining a new kind of math problem; a car is traveling at sixty miles per hour, inside the car a ten year old boy drinks a twelve ounce can of caffeinated, sugary soda in ten minutes. How many miles will the car travel before the boy announces that he is about to wet his pants? How many miles can the car travel before the boy actually does wet his pants? It was very complicated.

Back on the road again. New sights to see, the pleasant drone of wheels on asphalt, the boys in the back seat engrossed in a video game, and John and I can talk while Carmen reads. We’re making good time now. About forty miles up the road and we are in the Kiamichi mountains, just hills by most standards, but pretty with thick hardwoods and pines to the horizon, and very little traffic or houses. Suddenly I see headlights flashing behind me. The Durango riders are signaling me to pull over, the cell phones are not working. I pull over and walk back the Dodge, noticing that the temperature feels like it’s about ninety five. “What’s wrong” I asked, as Becky opened the back door and Ben got out? “Ben’s car sick”, Becky replied. I looked at Ben, but he wasn’t throwing up, just standing on the roadside kicking rocks. “ When did he start getting sick” I asked. Becky started to say something, but Sunnie chimed in and said, “it was just a few minutes ago, it was right after Becky said that she hoped these hills didn’t make anyone car sick.” I gave Becky my withering death ray glare. She saw it, but it bounced right off. She had already activated her “I’m a grandmother and I will baby my grandkids all I want” shield.

At this point I asked if any of the kids need to relieve themselves again, and Tyler and Ben took advantage of the thick foliage beside the highway. Everyone else passed. I wondered how far to the next bathroom, could we make it? We got back on the road again and rolled steady for about another hour, passing through three or four little communities. We got the cell phone message that we needed another bathroom stop, and luckily we were just a few minutes away from a little town that had a decent convenience store. By now the temperature was around a hundred degrees and I knew that our plan for a roadside picnic was out of the question. The kids all had snacks and drinks, even though we planned to stop for lunch at Fort Smith, about seventy more miles up the road.

Miraculously we made it all the way to Fort Smith without any incidents. We found a McDonalds and a Taco Bell adjacent to each other and some ate tacos, and others had burgers. I started the kids going to the bathroom as soon as they were finished eating, and we managed to be back on the road in a somewhat timely fashion. Just a few miles east on I-40, and we turned onto the new interstate going to Springdale. This is a long scenic stretch with no rest stops on the interstate. I expected to be in Springdale within an hour. Before we got out of Fort Smith completely the phone rang. “Ben needs to find a bathroom” Misty said. “He just went in McDonalds didn’t he”, I asked in exasperation? “Yes, he did, but now he needs to do something different”, was the reply. We found a likely store and Ben went in escorted by an impatient dad. A few minutes later we took off again.

If I want this story to not take longer than our trip, I am going to have to summarize, so here goes:

1:30 PM, 20 miles from Ft. Smith- Becky needs a bathroom ASAP.

1:45 PM, 37 miles from Ft. Smith- We exit and drive down into a small town and find a grocery store where Becky and I use their facilities.

2:05 PM, back on the Interstate.

3:15 PM, we take the wrong exit in Springdale, Ark.

3:35 PM, stuck in traffic in Springdale

3:50 PM, stop at gas station in Springdale. Wade is feeling sick, Misty says he ate two boxes of Hot Tamales candy and a Big Grab bag of Fritos. I start feeling sick just thinking about it.

4:30 PM, trying to get everyone back in the vehicles. I tell Becky that if she will take over driving, that I will just start walking on ahead. If the family catches up with me to stop and pick me up, if not I will go ahead and check us into the lodge, it’s only another thirty miles or so. Becky gives me a death ray glare, she is no mood for sarcasm

4: 50 PM, we manage to get back on the freeway and head north.

5:15 PM we take the correct exit off the Interstate.

5:50 PM, we stop at the last convenience store before we get to the lodge. I don’t remember why, it just seems like that we can’t pass a store now without stopping.

6:10PM, we get back on the road

6:30 PM, we roll triumphantly into the lodge parking lot.

We enjoyed the weekend immensely. We hiked all of the trails, and the kids played in the river to their hearts’ content. The trip home on Sunday was just like the trip up there, except we were tired and cranky. Now that I think about it, maybe it was a good thing that we didn’t go back this year. I’m not sure that I’m rested up enough yet.

Ronnie

We have so many great pictures Becky is creating a slide show. We should have it posted in a couple of days.

Wednesday, September 05, 2007

Ben and Carla's Little Baby Girl

Miss Lillian Mei

Here she is!!!!!!!!!! More info on China Hope !!!!!!!!!!!

Monday, September 03, 2007

Adoption Update

Check out our China Hope site for the latest information on this month's matches. My cousin Ben and his family will be matched this month!!!!!!! I know they are so excited and we are very happy for them. Congratulations Ben, Carla, Marley and Luke.

Becky

Friday, August 31, 2007

We've Only Just Begun


Thirty four years ago today Becky and I were married. I had no idea of what I was getting into. Whatever expectations I may have had about marriage, love, and family have been exceeded beyond anything I could have ever dreamed. If I could go back in time, the only thing I would do differently is to propose sooner.

We were married on a Friday, before Labor Day, so that I could have some time off for a short wedding trip. (I just wish Becky could have gone with me. Just kidding!) I remember it being very hot that day, well I think it was, I sure was perspiring profusely all day. My Uncle Jake was best man, and friend Danny Joe was groomsman. Danny and I went to a nearby “wet town” for champagne and almost got busted due to bad tail light on my Firebird.

When we were getting dressed in our rented Tuxes, we ran into a couple of problems. Jake’s shirt was a little too small in the neck, so Danny held him down, and after quite a struggle I finally got the top button fastened, but Jake couldn’t breathe very well for a while. The other problem was that after we were dressed, we had spare Tuxedo parts. We found out later that one of the things left over was called a “cumberbun”. It didn’t matter though, because we were dressed sharper than we had ever been.

Misty, about nineteen months old at the time, slept through the last part of the wedding. She stayed with my parents for the weekend. Becky and I both started missing Misty badly before we came home on Sunday afternoon, but she was fine. If a prophet had been there that weekend and told us all of the things that would happen in our future, the children, the grandchildren, the places we would live and work, etc. we would have said, “no way”! Imagine if they had told us that after thirty four years of marriage we would adopt a fourth daughter, and from China to boot.

But as it is written, Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have it entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love Him. 1 Cor. 2:9 KJV.

Ronnie

Sunday, August 19, 2007

Kaila and Chad What a Beautiful Wedding !!

We recently went to Oklahoma City to my neice Kaila's Wedding. It was really beautiful. She asked Ronnie to help out with the ceremony and he was so honored to be a part of that. Sunnie Kay was the flower girl. We took a lot of great pictures and then left the camera at my Step-Dad's so I'm just now getting these pictures posted. My nephew Garrett successfully avoided my camera all day so no pictures of the brother of bride.

Kaila was a beautiful bride and her husband Chad is so sweet. The wedding took place at The Rock Assembly of God Church. We had a wonderful weekend and we were really happy to be able to share in this wonderful day with my brother Billy and his family.
The Wedding








The Reception




This Cake was so Beautiful and soooooooooo GOOD!!

All the layers were different flavors.

My favorite the Strawberry !!


Our daughter Carmen and my neice Ashley



Kaila and her Grandpa
My other neice Raina and Grandpa
My sweet sister in law Janet and Grandpa
Billy, Father of the Bride and my fun loving brother and his Dad.

The Flower Girl unwinding!!!!



Aren't they Cute !


What a wonderful day,
Becky

Friday, August 03, 2007

We are closer by 7 days!!!!!!


The CCAA has sent out the matches for this month. We are 7 days closer. They sent out referrals for November 14, 2005 through November 21, 2005. YEAH. We were really hoping for them to get past November 22 which has a huge number of families logged in. Regardless we are so excited to think that we will probably get matched with our little girl within the next 3 months. My cousin Ben and his family have a November 24 LID are NEXT (probably)!!!!! We are so excited for them.
If you check out China Hope tomorrow I will add some links to several beautiful little children that were matched to forever families this week.
Becky

Monday, July 30, 2007

A Tale of Two Cakes



It was the best of cakes, it was the worst of cakes. On Father’s Day this year we had a gathering at Jeff and Bethany’s house. Misty was to cook the hot dogs and Bethany and Carmen made desserts. Both decided on chocolate cake because I am a confirmed chocoholic. Bethany used a recipe she had found and cooked a super chocolate cake, it had cherry pie filling in the batter and a frosting made of semi-sweet chocolate. It was a plain looking cake on the outside, because the thick frosting didn’t spread real well, but Bethany was very proud of her work.

That is, she was proud until Carmen brought in her cake. Bethany said, “You baked a cake too? Let me see.” She was anxious to compare her handiwork with Carmen's (she tends to be slightly competitive). Carmen lifted the cover on her cake. It had a beautiful creamy frosting done in a meticulous swirl with little chocolate rosettes all around the top edge. Bethany took a long look at Carmen’s cake and said, “Well, I think I’ll just throw mine in the trash!” Carmen tried to console her by explaining that her cake was just made from a mix and simply had fancy frosting, but it was no use, Bethany’s cake was overwhelmed.

I had to sample both of the cakes and brag a whole lot on Bethany’s, before she finally agreed to not throw her cake away. It really was a delicious cake for a chocolate lover, but it was sooo chocolatey that it set off a round of heart palpitations in me that took several days to subside. On a scale of 1 to 10 for degree of chocolate in the ingredients, it scored about 13.

Jeff noticed a few days later that the cake had a remarkable quality. It was a dense, moist, heavy cake, and he swears that it gets heavier as it ages, even when it was being reduced in size as he and Bethany ate a little each day. If Jeff is correct, and I am afraid that he might be, what is left of the cake is probably in a lab in Los Alamos, where a two inch square of the cake now weighs four hundred pounds and is gaining. Scientists are probably secretly preparing for the next Big Bang or for a Black Hole to form. If the power could be harnessed it might be a solution to so called global warming.

Anyway, it’s good to know that my daughters love me so much that they would try to kill me with chocolate.

Wednesday, July 18, 2007

Little Miss Lexy

Here are some really cute pictures of my little great neice Lexy. She is a doll. Thank you Bill and Sharon for the pictures. Hey Amy and Lance she is beautiful. I really really need to hold her now and kiss those sweet cheeks!!!!!!!!!!!!

Becky


Lexington



Monday, July 16, 2007

Baseball Season 2007



Tyler and Sunnie played ball this spring and summer. We had so much fun going to the games, eating nachos, and getting sunburned....



Happy Birthday Sunnie Kay


Sunnie Kay recently celebrated her 7th Birthday.
She had a couple of friends over and lots of family to help her enjoy her day.

We love you Sunnie Girl and are so proud of you. Hope you had a wonderful day.


Ronnie and Becky

Wednesday, July 11, 2007

More Reunion Pictures

Here are rest of our Reunion Pictures. Just click on the title or just scroll down to that post and enjoy the fun. If you use the link just click the back button when finished.

Becky

Wednesday, July 04, 2007

Happy Firecracker Day!!

Grandma really enjoyed today. Another July 4 comes to a close on Wolfhill.

Hey Dad I can do it!! Mike, Chris and Corey Misty and Wade
Tyler having a little fun!!



Our lady liberty
John and Carmen
Bradley, Caleb and Ben

Caleb and Bradley

John and Sunnie
I remember a few years ago Ben would watch the fireworks from the inside of the house...now he is right in the middle of all the action.

Even the big kids love sparklers!! Bethany and Jeff

2 Patriotic Texas Gals

Misty taking it easy
Carmen and Glenna


I'm not making light of the importance of this day to our country by calling it firecracker day but every year on the 4th of July I remember when our girls were little they called it that and planned a party like a birthday party each year with their cousins. They even made a cake!!


Today we had a wonderful time. With all the rain there was not much danger of fire and so our girls and their families as well as my nephew and his boys had a wonderful time shooting off fireworks. Grandma was here and she and I opened up the curtains in my bedroom raised the shades and watched the action. Out the east window we could see the great fireworks display at the lake and then out the south window we could see the Wolfhill Fireworks show.



All the kids covered with OFF mosquito repellent had a great time. Enjoy the pictures.